Romantic Love – A New Explanation

Throughout history, there has been an incredibly strong presence of romantic love in human history. Depictions of this have taken many forms – from ancient mythological stories like Helen of Troy to ancient history, such as Cleopatra, to more recent stories like Romeo and Juliet, human history has been infatuated with the idea of romantic love between a man and a woman.

Modern research tells us that the strong impulses we feel towards some people are merely neurochemical pathways that regulate social attachment in the brain. Chemicals such as oxytocin and vasopressin are released in our brain, which cause strong feelings of attachment, happiness, and love.

However, my theory (and it’s not just mine) is that there is more to it than just brain chemicals, neurotransmitters, that tell us who to love and how much to love them. I think our souls have a connection, sometimes called a twin flame, to certain people we meet throughout our lives.

The idea that our souls have lived past lives isn’t new – it’s a major belief held by religions worshipped by millions of people throughout the world.

The idea of having a twin flame or soul mate actually originates thousands of years ago. The fact that it’s still prevalent today, and the language of a soul mate is still used in numerous cultures and languages, speaks to how connected human beings are to past lives and to soul mates.

Twin flames are people you may feel an instant connection to who will play an important (although not necessarily long) part in your life. You will learn from them, grow from them, and they will help you evolve to your highest self. Twin flames can often be a romantic connection, but may also be a mentor, friend, or relative. What’s interesting is that there are similar stages all twin flame connections go through upon finding each other.

One of the most well known scientists who has collected thousands of case studies of children who spontaneously remembered their past lives is Dr. Ian Stevenson. Some of the case studies he analyzed include children with the ability to speak languages they had no access to, describe rooms or situations that they couldn’t possibly have known about (like the operation of a WW2 fighter plane).

Therefore, the belief that romantic love exists for a reason we don’t necessarily understand, and may never fully understand, is aligned with my beliefs. When we look at ancient religions along with the current scientific evidence, it’s a logical conclusion that deserves more attention and further research.

Dating Someone Getting Over a Breakup

Dating someone who is getting over a breakup can be a big challenge. But knowing what to expect and how to handle the situation can make the challenges you face together fade away or disappear altogether. Here are a few obstacles that you may face while dating someone who is getting over a breakup and some tips and methods to overcome the issues.

A Major Challenge

After a breakup, your potential partner may find themselves in a place where they feel as if their whole world has been shattered and there’s no one to take care of them. Many people get so emotionally invested in relationships that they become an integral part of that individual. After spending so much time with someone, relying on them, sharing ideas and thoughts and making important decisions with them, they’re now all alone after the breakup and may find it difficult to handle themselves and cope with the situation. They may feel lost and confused and generally unlike themselves.

The challenge is to deal with someone who has been broken into pieces and make them realise that it isn’t the end of the world. It is a transitional period for them where there might be masses of different emotions running through their head. Perhaps a good tip might be to spend time helping them to try to figure out their place in the world, their personal desires and how they will fill the void in their life. Go slow, try some cute date ideas and surprises, and help them recover from their past.

Overcoming the Challenge

Power of Patience

The seriousness of a previous relationship will affect the way someone starts dating again. For instance someone coming out of a very long, emotionally involved relationship may be reluctant to get emotionally attached to someone new. They will probably need a lot of time to heal and want things to start off slow. But other individuals may not know what they want. One day they may be happy and feel inspired, ready to date again, but another day they may not. You may recieve mixed signals that will make things confusing and difficult to handle. The best advice in this situation is to be patient.

This can cause a lot of daters to give up far too quickly. Some people could take this behaviour personally, or get annoyed and give up. That’s really their problem, not yours and certainly not the fault of the person who’s been left on their own.

But it doesn’t have to be a problem. Not for someone who is patient and recognizes the struggle their potential partner is going through. It’s best to stay calm, give them space and listen. It might not take a lot of time to figure out what he or she really wants. Eventually (hopefully!), they will realize you are Mr or Ms Perfect and they will be ready to start dating again.

Help Them Rebuild

Being patient doesn’t mean you will be constantly waiting for them to make all the decisions, in fact you can help this process to speed up. Think of amazing ideas for dates and bring back that smile on their face. Help them to move on from their previous relationship by finding something they love doing but haven’t been able to do for ages, perhaps their previous partner didn’t approve or didn’t like it.  This will help cut ties to the past, helping them to live in the present and think of the future. If he or she previously went hiking or to a bar with their ex, such activities are going to be emotional reminders of the old relationship. The more they keep thinking of the past, the more difficult it will become to pull them out of those thoughts. Instead of digging through their past, help them move towards a bright future.
Perhaps you could utilise your dates to go to places or try activities they have never done before. Show them what they have been missing in life. Shake up their monotonous habits and help them create new ones by surprising them with simple, romantic date ideas, such as a walk in the park or a trip to the zoo with a picnic afterwards . Make their life so awesome that they will feel that this relationship is even better than anything they’ve experienced before.

Express Your Emotions Too

If you are constantly supporting your new partner, you’ll definitely be building a special corner in their heart. But be careful, don’t fall into the category of being a therapist or a friend because once you’re assigned that role, it becomes hard to get out of it. Ensure they are aware of your romantic intentions. Try to work out if you need to lead and take things onto the next level, or if they’d prefer to do this at their own pace. If, even after a while you’re still not sure on this one, don’t get tense. They may not be able to deal with these situations now but you never know how things will turn out tomorrow. Stay calm and composed and continue to show support at every step. They will eventually understand your awesomeness one day and once ready, will most likely say a big-“YES”.

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You know you have a gigantic determination of courses of action and your flowers will arrive when you need them. Requesting your flowers online will promise that. On the off chance that they are for a gathering, you need them there just before the gathering so they are new and will last. So by the chance if you are requesting them to adorn your home maybe you need them on Saturday evening so you can appreciate every one of them at the weekend when the family is around.

You can pick a course of action that will coordinate the subject of the gathering

Notwithstanding decorative designs, best flower decorators in Bangalore offers different endowments of this nature online. You can have flowers in vases, plants in pots, or mixes of flowers and plants. On the off chance that you shop in online, you can search through the numerous game plans they offer, or you can outline your own game plan. In the event that you pick from their online inventory, you can make sure you will be sending the definite course of action you see before you on the screen.

Maybe spring globules to coordinate a spring garden party, or in the event that it is an infant shower, you can get a decorative layout of pink and blue flowers.
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Get the various courses of action in coordinating or comparable hues and put them on the principle table, in the passageway lobby, or if you have organization staying over, in the visitor rooms.
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Playing the Field

Every so often, there are some natural phenomenon’s that occur that change the cycle of things.  Not quite sure of what is going on, I do notice that I no longer see “5, 7, 9” stores, I can actually find sexy bra’s in my size, and this curvy, sexy Goddess has had her little black book become quite large in the past few years.  As my little black book grew, the length in my days didn’t and in a matter of weeks, I went from being a “single girl, dating” to a “weather girl” (remember the hit song “It’s Raining Men”?).  Quickly I had to learn the art of managing this man monsoon, because the more men that asked me out, the sexier I felt and the more confidence I radiated, which led to…..yep, you guessed it!!! More dates!  Because I am a control freak, and somewhat of a planner, I sat down and assessed the situation.  I made a “pro’s and con’s” list.  The pro’s far outweighed the con’s.  Who would not choose this incredible sexy energy I got, along with the great boost in confidence, the opportunity to meet a wide scope of men, the perfect dates for all of the things I like to do (that’s correct, I did not have to take a baseball fan to the opera!), and some potentially good sex partners?  The only con’s that I could really come up with were my friends reactions.  One of them asked me if I “was serious about becoming a slut?”.  Another said that I was “only missing my chance to meet Mr. Right”.  Too bad.  My decision was made, and over the course of the last few years, I have dated a slew of studs, a few duds, and some romantic Romeo’s.  I am going to share with you just how you can take your dating from the minor leagues and swing your bat so that you, too, can play the field, with me in the All-Star game.

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

The most important thing in playing the field is knowing what you want.  How many men do you think you want to date?  For some girls it is two or three men, already known to them, just to weed out the better of her suitors.  Others, like me, just go with the flow, realizing that as new men come into your life, old men fall out of it, and keeping a constant rotation optimizes on the “fun factor”.  What kind of men are you looking for?  If you are set in your way, and know that Monday’s you bowl, Tuesday’s you eat at your favorite place, etc., then chances are you are not looking for a variety in your men.  You want someone that is pretty similar to you, and your choices in men will be the same. It is safe to bet that most of your men will have common traits.  On the other hand, if you like doing a lot of different things, then maybe finding a bigger slice of the man pie may be a better idea for you.  Go for it! That is the whole point! Date that artist Monday.  Go out with that suit-wearing stock broker on Tuesday!  It is your world, Goddess!  Another thing you need to know in playing the field is what do you want to get out of it?  Are you looking for Mr. Right?  Do you want to just have fun?  Maybe you just like a very active social calendar.  Whatever the reason, as long as you know why you are doing it, make it work for you, not for anyone else.  Know what you want, and then, like the Goddess you are, go get it, wait, no.  Go get them!

KEEP IT REAL

You are a Goddess, and part of being such is being real.  This comes into play while juggling your men too.  You cannot expect to have this work at all if you cannot be honest with the men you date.  Listen closely, ladies.  What I am saying here is never let any man think that you and he are exclusive.  That is it.  Don’t ever give out all of the juicy details.  Your All-Star roster should remain as private as your medical records.  If you find that you have a brunch with Joe Saturday morning, and dinner with Steve that night (which is perfectly fine!) the last thing you want to do is meet Steve and tell him all about that brunch with Joe, but if asked you can simply say you had brunch with a friend.  See where I am going with this?  Keep in mind, with all of this male attention, you will be seeping a sexual energy that will make even the most flaccid man sniff you out in a crowd.  It’s inevitable that at one point a suitor will approach you with the offer to become exclusive.  Because you have been honest all along, all you simply have to say is “I am not ready for a monogamous relationship right now”.  (If you are, I will explain that a bit more into this)  On the flip-side, you might have the suitor who also “plays the field” and in his harem, he has found the woman that he decides to get serious with, and it is not you.  Gracefully wish him nothing but the best, and mark that number off as a “do not call”.  And really mean it!  Goddesses that play the field cannot be the jealous type.

TO SEX, OR NOT TO SEX

Imagine how much sex appeal you are throwing around, with all of these men wanting to spend time with you.  Your confidence is soaring, and opportunity is constantly there.  So, now what do you do when you are faced with the big question “Do I sleep with him?”  It is simple.  As long as you have condoms, and you want it, go for it.  It could be the best sex of your life, but you won’t know until you do it.  Now, it gets tricky when more than one of your guys wants to get busy.  But here is where your discretion and safe sex make all of the difference.  How many one night stands have you had, and said afterwards “Damn, I wish I did that more often”.  Usually, it’s because it’s something different than what you are used to.  In playing the field you are putting yourself in the center of a sexual perfect storm.  Already knowing the men you could potentially bed, you up your variety, or should I say spice factor tenfold, and could launch your sex life from ow to WOW like that! (I snapped my fingers!)  One huge benefit, when you do meet Mr. Right, you will have that little bag tricks you learned from your days of being a “player” and trust me ladies, he will worship you in the boudoir!

TIME TO SAY GOODBYE

Chances are, in dating multiple men, in time you will find the one that you think may be someone that you could exclusively date.  It is not an easy thing to do, but at this point you need to have your exit strategy in place.  And because you kept it real, this is going to be cake.  There should be no need for one last date with any of the studs in your stable.  A phone call is enough.  “I have met someone that I have decided to date exclusively” is all you have to say.  Most of the men will really respect the call, and wish you well.  Just make sure you really let all of them know that you are now unavailable, and in an exclusive relationship.  As any great woman with a “past” (it sounds so sexy, right?) you may get an occasional call or seven from some of the guys in your big black book (it really does get pretty big!).  As tempting as it could be, make sure you let them know that you are off the market.  After all, if your goal in juggling all of these men was to maximize on your time to find Mr. Right, and you think you found him, the last thing you want to do is put sugar in the gas tank of your lovemobile!

As with anything, playing the field is something that takes at least a little practice to master.  If you follow the few tips above, and take cues from your inner Goddess, in no time you will be able to perfect the art of juggling multiple men.  Remember, playing the field is the best way to narrow the playing field.  Keep your game up, and keep it about you.  When our mothers were young, this is how they held court.  There was no “dating” as we knew it.  They “kept their options open”.  Not that I am an anthropologist or a sociologist, but considering that the divorce rate has skyrocketed in our generation, maybe they were on to something.  It could be that they did not settle, they knew what they wanted, or they got to sow some form of wild oats, who knows.  What I do know is that after dating literally hundreds of men, this Goddess has found her Mr. Right, and if I had not dated all of the Mr. Wrong’s, and Mr. Almost’s, I never would have known what I was looking for, and what I had when I found it.  He knows and loves my All-Star past, especially because we hit a grand-slam home run in making “us” part of our future.

Facing your Straying Spouse: Extreme Caution Is Terribly Important

Have you just recently learned that your spouse is or has been cheating on you? If the answer is yes then you are probably chomping at the bit to have it out with them. Of course there is no reason why you shouldn’t. With that said, you might want to be cautious. There are occasions when confronting a two timing mate may become scary.

If you decide to face up to your cheating mate by yourself, you may want to go slow meaning take extra precautions. In fact, you may have to delay on the potential conflict. Is your mate well known for her or his temper? If yes being by yourself when facing up to them might not be the best way to accuse them of infidelity or showing them the proof that you have. This can be particularly valid if you wish to request a divorce or separation. If you can go ahead and get a trustworthy close friend, member of the family or perhaps a policeman with you when you decide to face up to them.

Likewise, never ever confront a cheating mate or even make any accusations when in front of your children. It doesn’t make a difference if your kids are babies or adolescents. Youngsters are familiar with cheating therefore you don’t really want to pull them into this mess any further than you need to. Newborns will have no clue as to what you’re referring to nonetheless the voices filled with raw emotion may be frightening and overwhelming.

If your spouse is either verbally abusive or physically abusive use your best judgment. If you wish to end the spousal relationship because of cheating, it may be wise to do this all at one time. As stated previously it is best to have someone with you when confronting your mate but if you choose to go it alone and things get dicey then take action immediately. Get out of the house and do not come back until you have somebody there to back you up. Never put your own self in jeopardy when dealing with an unfaithful husband or wife.

Yet another scenario where you should be careful whenever accusing a cheating spouse is if you are not prepared to walk out the door. Yes, you will have every right to be the one to stay and your cheating mate leave but life unfortunately does not always work that way. If your husband or wife will not leave your home even if it’s temporary then are prepared to move out? And what about the children if you happen to be a mother or father? Whether or not your primary aim is to end the relationship with your spouse make sure to have a backup plan ready to go if you decide that staying in the house with your philandering spouse is not feasible.

Lastly, consider carefully facing up to a cheating spouse if you don’t have any proof. Have you ever spotted your mate out with somebody else? Not going out to lunch with a coworker but an actual date? Did you notice the cell phone or maybe credit card bills with suspicious or unusual entries? If you haven’t, it will be far better to be patient until you have got verification. Your spouse might deny having an affair. Or the bottom line is they are not cheating and your empty accusation is the seed that could bring down the entire relationship